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I Pegged!

Sasha Sobolevsky

I'm obsessed with having a penis. I’ve wanted one for as long as I can remember. I was born and raised a female and have lived as a female for 30 years. I was born the correct gender for myself, but I’ve always wanted a penis. I frequently dream about it, and I’m always jealous of guys with huge bulges I see walking around.

My favorite pegging depiction

My favorite pegging depiction

Lucky for me, I met someone who wanted to make that dream a reality. He has played around with prostate toys and really enjoyed it, and was curious about pegging. (Side note-that wiki article about pegging has the best image ever). This was the chance to have a penis that I’d been waiting for.

Camryn Harness

Camryn Harness

We went to Babeland and bought the Camryn harness, because it was minimal so I would be able to have some sensation, and a dildo. Neither of us realized how expensive this was going to be, but SO WORTH IT. I won’t get into all the details, but we came home and used lots and lots of lube.

The experience was incredible. I loved being able to provide pleasure to my partner in a way that I never have before. There was something about “giving it to him” that made me feel so powerful and in control, also in a way I never have before sexually. I often feel that I can’t or shouldn’t ask for what I want, either because I am a sub or because I am a woman. But seeing him as a bottom gave me a new perspective. It was also very emotionally affirming for me to take on the Dominant role. I felt more comfortable doing that with a “penis” than without. I always sub, and I think I still prefer that, but this experience makes me consider switching more often, with or without a strap-on. In addition, never having been in a Dominant role, I thought it was more about taking, but as I said above, it was very much about giving pleasure to my partner. He said it felt great for him too and would be more than happy to continue this experiment.

One note about size: the dildo we got was too small for the harness ring, so if you plan to do this make sure the dildo is held tight and doesn’t flop out of the harness. Our harness has adjustable cock rings to handle different size dildos, so that was a good choice.

What’s in Your Toy Bag?

Sasha Sobolevsky

Sir Rucifer

I have a very extensive collection of kink toys. I have an entire footlocker filled with pretty much anything that you can imagine that I have collected over the years. Out of my collection, there are a few toys that I keep in my "to-go bag," which is a small case that's easy to travel with. I like to have some thuddy, stingy, and sensation play options. So for the thuddy player, I have my first flogger that I bought from Blue Devil Leather, and also what I lovingly refer to as the phone book, which is a slapper from Raven's Blood Leather. For the stingy options I have a Dragon tail, also from Raven's Blood Leather, and a single tail from Black Cat Whips. The sensation play toys I carry with me are usually a wartenberg wheel or metal finger tips and a feather.. also rope...lots and lots of rope. 

Assault Whips from Black Cat Whips

Assault Whips from Black Cat Whips

As you gain experience in kink and also settle into your own Domming style you find toys that work well with your style of playing. But remember, "the toys don't make the Dom;" you can have a very stimulating scene with just a stern look, a quick wit, and a pair of eager hands. 

Sasha

I have a pretty small collection of kink toys. My favorite is the Whartenberg wheel. It looks scary, but don’t judge a kink toy by its look! When you actually run it along your skin, it has the most wonderful tickly tingly sensation. It is also something fun to add to vanilla sex to give it just a touch of spice; you don’t have to be a kinky pro or master to enjoy.

Need a chrome one vibrator

Need a chrome one vibrator

I also love my rabbit vibrator. While not necessarily a kink toy, I love using it with a partner for all kinds of things, including orgasm denial. I think that’s a big part of what kink is all about. Using items in new and innovative ways.

Another favorite is my Justin Sayne Leather slapper. I have one in pink! Not only is it pretty, but it’s compact and easy to use.