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What’s in Your Toy Bag?

Sasha Sobolevsky

Sir Rucifer

I have a very extensive collection of kink toys. I have an entire footlocker filled with pretty much anything that you can imagine that I have collected over the years. Out of my collection, there are a few toys that I keep in my "to-go bag," which is a small case that's easy to travel with. I like to have some thuddy, stingy, and sensation play options. So for the thuddy player, I have my first flogger that I bought from Blue Devil Leather, and also what I lovingly refer to as the phone book, which is a slapper from Raven's Blood Leather. For the stingy options I have a Dragon tail, also from Raven's Blood Leather, and a single tail from Black Cat Whips. The sensation play toys I carry with me are usually a wartenberg wheel or metal finger tips and a feather.. also rope...lots and lots of rope. 

Assault Whips from Black Cat Whips

Assault Whips from Black Cat Whips

As you gain experience in kink and also settle into your own Domming style you find toys that work well with your style of playing. But remember, "the toys don't make the Dom;" you can have a very stimulating scene with just a stern look, a quick wit, and a pair of eager hands. 


I have a pretty small collection of kink toys. My favorite is the Whartenberg wheel. It looks scary, but don’t judge a kink toy by its look! When you actually run it along your skin, it has the most wonderful tickly tingly sensation. It is also something fun to add to vanilla sex to give it just a touch of spice; you don’t have to be a kinky pro or master to enjoy.

Need a chrome one vibrator

Need a chrome one vibrator

I also love my rabbit vibrator. While not necessarily a kink toy, I love using it with a partner for all kinds of things, including orgasm denial. I think that’s a big part of what kink is all about. Using items in new and innovative ways.

Another favorite is my Justin Sayne Leather slapper. I have one in pink! Not only is it pretty, but it’s compact and easy to use.

Balls Part II

Sasha Sobolevsky

I got my LUNA Beads™ Noir in the mail recently, and I tell you they are beautifully packaged. It was kind of like opening an Apple product, you are excited just from the packaging because you know something awesome is inside.

I washed them up and put them in. I definitely felt them more than the Fetish Fantasy balls. I walked around, jumped up and down, sat down, stood up. I felt them almost the whole time, but more like a pressure rather than a sexual pleasure.

Finally, I lay down to watch some porn and masturbate. This was when the beads really kicked in. It was subtle, but the internal pressure felt nice. I can only imagine what anal feels like with those rattling around. Maybe there will be a Balls Part III update!

In the end, I think Ben Wa Balls are a fun little addition to personal or partner fun time. I would mostly use them around the house to strengthen up my ladymuscles, but would consider using with a partner.


EDIT: has a good backgrounder on LELO and the sex toy industry.

Balls Part I

Sasha Sobolevsky

Ever since I read Fifty Shades of Grey I was curious about Ben Wa Balls. Slightly embarrassed to admit I didn’t know what they were before, but so it goes. I did some online research, and some people lived by them, and others didn’t feel much of anything. I needed to try them for myself.

Fetish Fantasy Ben Wa Balls (mine are gold colored)

Fetish Fantasy Ben Wa Balls (mine are gold colored)

I went online and ordered these puppies from Babeland. I was so so excited when they arrived; tore the box open, washed them up, took a deep breath of excitement, and popped them in.


I couldn’t feel anything. I walked around. Still nothing. Texted Rucifer. He told me to do jumping jacks. One fell out, but nothing else special happened. Sadness.

I went to Babeland a few days later and asked what I should do. They informed me that the ones I had purchased were for kegel exercises, not sexual pleasure. Makes sense. I did feel a tiny bit like I had to hold them in. They told me that for a fun sensation, I should try the ones that rattle around, like these.

So, they are in the mail, and I will post an update when I try those out. Moral of the story: be sure to manage your expectations when reading fictional sex books!