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Racial and Social Problematic Elements of BDSM

Sasha Sobolevsky

I have many times considered society's role in my being a woman who is a BDSM submissive. Sometimes it really upsets me but overall, I accept that it makes me happy, and I wouldn't like to live my life any other way. As long as I am safe, sane, and the activities I participate in are consensual, I am ok with it.

I have recently also been considering the problematic racial dynamics within BDSM. This is a harder for me to contend with. I am a white woman, and I won't pretend to approach that I understand the ramifications. Instead, I will let the words of others stand in where I have none of my own. Please take a look at the following articles. As the US is currently undergoing a reckoning, I believe that BDSM is not free from the race and gender issues that plague the country, and the world. I don’t know what to do about it, but I know that we need to continue talking about it.

With love,

Sasha

 

https://newsone.com/3774527/black-dominatrix-feminist-theory-supremacy-mistress-velvet/

http://www.papermag.com/muslim-bdsm-leather-kink-fetish-2535544218.html

https://www.bustle.com/articles/121570-the-bdsm-motto-is-safe-sane-and-consensual-but-is-that-good-enough