I have a very extensive collection of kink toys. I have an entire footlocker filled with pretty much anything that you can imagine that I have collected over the years. Out of my collection, there are a few toys that I keep in my "to-go bag," which is a small case that's easy to travel with. I like to have some thuddy, stingy, and sensation play options. So for the thuddy player, I have my first flogger that I bought from Blue Devil Leather, and also what I lovingly refer to as the phone book, which is a slapper from Raven's Blood Leather. For the stingy options I have a Dragon tail, also from Raven's Blood Leather, and a single tail from Black Cat Whips. The sensation play toys I carry with me are usually a wartenberg wheel or metal finger tips and a feather.. also rope...lots and lots of rope.
As you gain experience in kink and also settle into your own Domming style you find toys that work well with your style of playing. But remember, "the toys don't make the Dom;" you can have a very stimulating scene with just a stern look, a quick wit, and a pair of eager hands.
I have a pretty small collection of kink toys. My favorite is the Whartenberg wheel. It looks scary, but don’t judge a kink toy by its look! When you actually run it along your skin, it has the most wonderful tickly tingly sensation. It is also something fun to add to vanilla sex to give it just a touch of spice; you don’t have to be a kinky pro or master to enjoy.
I also love my rabbit vibrator. While not necessarily a kink toy, I love using it with a partner for all kinds of things, including orgasm denial. I think that’s a big part of what kink is all about. Using items in new and innovative ways.
Another favorite is my Justin Sayne Leather slapper. I have one in pink! Not only is it pretty, but it’s compact and easy to use.